I've known Julie almost 20 years, as the "and Julie" half of DougandJulie, but also as Julie, of the beautiful smile and the indomitable spirit. She had many talents and interests but her greatest talent was for life itself, which she lived fully and fiercely. I only saw Doug and Julie together once after I moved to New Jersey in 2002 but we kept up on Facebook. We talked on the phone after Julie's diagnosis. She said when she told friends about her diagnosis, they sometimes asked what stage, and she responded, the surviving stage. And that is what Julie did. She fought through numerous chemo infusions and complications. The nurses and attendants loved her and that incredible, room lighting smile! She and Doug lived their days, eating barbeque, seeing friends, playing music. When I saw her in January, she was looking forward, not back. She liked the group home she was moving to, and she felt she was landing in a good place. She had her sports teams, her books and always, that cancer to fight. She was determined not to be conquered. And she wasn't. But she knew beyond doubt that Doug was waiting. So the woman who loved life fiercely, let go of the one that wasn't working and reached for a better one waiting for her. Cancer didn't win. Doug and Julie won. Love won.