I am saddened to learn of the loss of your dear Fred. The death of a loved one can be very painful , no matter how many their years. Please take solace in the knowledge that Our Heavenly Father has already made provision to awaken him from sleep. Jesus Himself speaks of this future Resurrection at John 5:28-29 . There it reads in part, " Do not be amazed at this, for the hour is coming in which all those in the memorial tombs will hear His voice and come out...". This will be to Eternal life on a Paradise earth (Mark 5:38-43, Psalms 37:11,29) ,where we will welcome back all our lost loved ones. May this wonderful promise from Our Creator, and your treasured memories of Russell bring you much comfort, since God Always keeps his promises (Titus 1:2). Mrs. D. Ward in Michigan For reliable Christian information on how to deal with the death of loved one visit www.jw.org